So we are now going to Welcome back Karen for the last time in this section of the course.
I'm going to have a little bit of fun this time right.
I'm going to ask Karen if she would be kind enough to recall what her goal was that we agreed upon in
the last conversation and preparing for being a mother preparing for being a mother.
Know what I'm going to do for demonstration purposes.
I'm going to do my very very best right to take my coaching hat off and instead just bowled two questions
into my vocabulary and it's going to be all that I use.
How specifically and for what purpose.
And we're just going to see where the conversation goes.
All right.
So Karl I want to just ask you to think about and reflect on first and foremost is you preparing to
be a more effective mother.
OK yeah yeah.
How specifically do you see yourself become in this.
Specifically
by better managing my daily responsibilities.
Who specifically tiger and a structured system in place so that I've decided each day was a priority
for me.
How specifically by
by using the tool that I've already got in place more efficiently which is it's called my search task.
And how specifically do you see that helping you achieve your goal alive that will allow me to to write
don't document the priorities for that day.
And I can choose from a whole list of things that I must do at some point and and prioritize them for
a certain day for purpose
to allow me to better manage my own time in that I
I don't end up saying yes to stuff which is not a priority.
I know what the priority is.
I've set the priorities yes to more specifically yes to other people's requests or to non urgent things
that don't need done for what purpose as this important
because it allows me to
to make my way to make progress to make progress yet to make progress in my own life for purpose.
For what purpose.
To live life more effectively to live life more effectively.
How specifically
how specifically through threw better time management and prioritizing connection prioritizing connection
for purpose and because that's what's most important of all things.
Oh specifically it's an important
because in comparison to all the daily tasks the people in my life and connecting with them is more
important than anything else.
For what purpose
and connection meaningful connection.
For what purpose connection
to make a difference for purpose
venturing into the abstract
to do something meaningful for purpose.
So it's nothing better than I can think to do with life.
Another but other than give my best to people give your best to people for what purpose
or purpose for what purpose what purpose does this serve
makes my life make sense.
You thinks your life makes sense.
Well I guess that's where we kind of want to be get into the conversations that we have with our clients.
If our clients those people that we're coaching can reach the stage where they can see the decisions
that they're making in terms of the action steps that they need to be taken make their lives make sense
then this is going to pretty much lead them into this place a motivation where they're going to be pretty
much adamant they committed to the process of change so to be honest we are.
This is the reason why we use conversational processes like this or conversational tools such as the
hierarchy if Ivy is chunking up for the purpose of going from the detailed up to the abstract chunking
down to you know to bring things to the clouds right back down to earth again is fantastic seeing we
want to change our life if we want to change the world fantastically and fantastically fantastic.
How specifically how specifically are we gonna do that so we can get into the details and integrity
and start formulating an action plan.
So that's chunking up chunking down.
Karen what was that like for you.
Yeah I how scared I was it was quite challenging in a way switching between the two and I find it easier
to go into the details but chunking up and thinking of the bigger picture it's like a different part
of the brain or something of class but it felt like it is difficult to do something to make that transition.
Yeah it can be chunking up requires one part of our of our mind and Chongqing don't know about the details
remember whether we're a detailed thinker or whether we're a global thinker is gonna determine how easily
and how easily we were able to work through questions like this so listen chunking up Chongqing don't
go and find a friend or a family member or a loved one or a child or am someone a colleague a manager
to practice this on or I just tell them your study and life coach and you're looking to build your skill
set up and you're looking for a guinea pig you can't break anyone that you can have quite a lot of fun
and if you get it and if you're and if you do this well you can lead someone else into a real a greater
depth and degree of insight into what they actually want and what's important for them in life.
So have some fun with this and I'll look forward to seeing you again in the next clip.
Thank you Karen for this section.
Maybe see you again next year.